Porn + Awareness = Penis Size Contentment

By The Erection Coach
https://erectiondr.com/index.html

What qualifies me: to make a judgement on average penis size? As the Erection Coach I encourage my students to use their penis and encourage erections - so unlike your average Dr who mainly sees flaccid penises - I see them soft, semi, Hard and Throbbing. Quite a few I've seen too.  So perhaps more than most I am qualified to make a judgement on penis size in all states and make a comment on pornography.  Recently I've been contacted by younger and younger men experiencing erection problems due to porn. This can be due to sensitivity/addiction issues (which I write about in a separate post) or due to insecurities, which can go on to affect the psychological aspects of the erection process.

Porn is rarely the problem - it's how we  interpret it. ErectionDr.com

You may know some of this already - but we all (me included) can get drawn in to the skewed porn world and we sometimes need to remind ourself of the realities as below.  I'm  using penis size as an example, but it works for just about every other insecurity too - such as  body image and sexual performance. 

Insecurities

Unless you're very sure in yourself – let's be honest - most of us can after watching porn feel a touch inadequate. Not just in size, but also such aspects as body shape - through to how far we shoot! So here are some things to keep in mind for greater sexual contentment.

One example – Penis size. In adult social media

Guys with a bigger than average penis, will tend to, want to show it off – if you've got it flaunt it!  That's just the way it tends to be. 

Reality Check1 There will inevitably be more pictures and videos of bigger penises - flaccid, erect, played with or us ed for penetration - posted in the first place.

Reality Check 2 Compounding this - the best, of these pictures and videos, get re-posted over and over. Whereas the guys with average size penises get less re posts (or retweets or whatever it may be).  

The Effect upon us: This can lead to us coming away thinking every guy has a big penis – or at the very least distorts what is 'average penis size' or body shape or whatever else you happen to be tuned into. It also applies to sexual acts too - thinking that everyone else is having a wild sexual time either with themselves or others - we have to remember that what we're viewing is just one time - and the other 99% of the time they may be having a mundane sex life. Indeed some videos may be a once in a lifetime event for some - but one sure thing is that it may not be great for them all of the time - so remember that it is totally normal to have different masturbation times or sexual times. For example - on some occasions it may be:

• a quick play due to privacy issues or time constraints
• a meaningful experimental session
• perhaps with a little effort evolve into something deeply erotic 
• a sensual relaxing mind/body experience
• simply because we feel a need to - either due to a build up of sexual feelings or as stress relief/sleep aid

This is because we're complex, with many emotions and physiological interactions at any given time - so we should not expect to have certain feelings or mind blowing self sex or any sex every time. Hopefully by knowing that others don't have this either - despite adult social media giving an impression to the contrary - this takes the pressure off you a bit? I hope so. However if you find you never have any exciting self sex/masturbation times - then generally that can be fixed - so get in touch! I can help with self sex, but I cannot help with sex with another because that involves relationships too - which is a whole other ball game!

The Possible Effect upon Erection Quality: This can lead to low level anxiety, I see it a lot during my role as Erection Coach (erectiondr.com), particularly with younger guys. However note I do say low level anxiety -  so low - we are often unaware of it, it's just in the background. I do stress here just a possible effect - no one knows the true numbers, but just in case you are affected by it - it is worth keeping in mind the above and what I now have to say....

As The Erection Coach at ErectionDr.com (especially when PreCovid) I had my central London training room where I saw hundreds of penises - soft, hard and semi erect - purely from doing my job.

My observations: Average Penis size in real life - of all ages, nationalities and ethnicities - bears no resemblance to the average penis size represented in adult social media, This is due to Reality Check 1 & 2 above.

Why are things so different now? Being more mature, I remember a time when only professional pornography was available - but every one knew you had to have a big penis to make it as a porn-star. But now with social media allowing everyday people to post pornography, or simply naked pics and video, there is now a danger of thinking what we see is average - as these are everyday guys with their dicks out and the average we are viewing whether soft, hard or in a sex act will (for reasons 1 and 2 above) tend to be bigger - that's just the way it is. We must remember the average in adult social media world bears no resemblance to the real world. 

I really hope this can help you. If you have anything you'd like to discuss feel free to contact me.  Next Post will be: 

Porn + Edging = Sex Media Addict Cured

©ErectionDr.com 2020

Want a Bigger Penis - Secrets of Erection Exercise

Erection Exercise Video Clip Speeded Up - 

Making your penis bigger is just one of many secrets - of erection exercising. One benefit from a series of exercises any man can do to strengthen his erection, improve sexual response, overcome erection problems and so many other things.

Average Penis Size

By The Erection Coach
https://erectiondr.com/index.htm

Before I talk too much about making penis bigger - it should be noted that I'm an advocate of being grateful for whatever size we have, both privately and especially in my capacity as the erectiondr.com. I did not set out to make my penis bigger - it has been an unexpected benefit. I have written in the past about how average penis size that I see in my day job (and I do see quite a few penises working as the erectioncoach.com!) and how it differs wildly to all the penises we can see on the web - especially in porn. A disproportionate amount of larger penises are reblogged, reposted and post in the first place, which can give a distorted view of what average penis size is. I will write more on that soon, but for now about penis exercise..... 

I sometimes surprise myself when I see my penis out, or I get naked - just how big it is - compared to what size my penis use to be. As a school kid I dreaded getting naked for the showers due to having one of the smallest penises there!

Even though I knew my soft penis could be a bit on the small side - I haven't let it stop me from being naked, in public!  During my whole career I'm always talking about body image and penis size -  advocating being happy and grateful for what we've got - whatever shape or size our penis is.

Yet the irony is that I now don't have to worry - because my penis is so much longer and thicker nowadays when he's soft - which I attribute to my erection kaizen!  My aim is solely to improve erection quality, and it is in this process I have noticed how much bigger he is nowadays. Just when I was totally fine with his size too - but I'm not complaining!

There is a reason why my soft penis has grown - organically and naturally. Purely due to extra blood flowing in - that's all. This has happened due to:

• my regular penis exercise
• being more relaxed/chilled

Both of these take constant work for me, but it does pay dividends in many ways!

My balls don't move this quick - though that is something I'm working on!

My regular penis exercise is a pelvic floor muscle strengthening exercise I do at some stage in my day. (Plus a mini version when I go to the loo - spending an extra few seconds or minutes (when possible) to do a few penis raises). All this strengthens the pelvic floor muscles - my erection muscle, we all have one of these (I'll explain more in another post). This muscle has the sole job of making our penis more rigid by pumping extra blood in.  Plus can, in time, give nice sensations which in turn brings about relaxation ...and even more blood into the penis!

The more I do this exercise - the bigger he'll stay for longer periods. I do the exercise regularly, as it makes me feel good, and so my penis tends to stay in this state: of having extra blood flow - meaning I now hardly ever see my penis as small as he use to be. Except when I'm really cold (and I have a story there too - but I'll save it for another time!)

But for me this is just something I notice - I really feel we should not concern our self with penis size, as they all have their merits and we should simply feel really lucky to have what we have got. But it does show me the power of exercise - a couple of minutes a day for Harder erections and I also get the bonus of a longer, thicker flaccid penis. 

However here I must point out that I also do lots of other things too, which all accumulate, but if someone wanted to make a start upon improving their erection quality but did not have the time or inclination to do all that I do - I'd single out the pelvic floor muscle strengthening - penis exercise to do as in the video above.

In a forthcoming post I'll explain about male anatomy, and emotions - which will give you an idea of why this exercise not only improves erection quality but flaccid penis size too!

©ErectionDr.com 2020